I think that
when you get into a relationship with anyone at all, you should dismiss his or her past. Whatever happened then happened at that time for a reason. Whether hes or shes been with their ex for months, years or forevs, it doesn’t matter, cause they choose to be with you now. It’s okay to discuss it once or twice but to repeatedly talk about it will bring nothing but worries and you know what happens when you worry too much. I think that people should just focus on the now and not on what was then. I’ve learned from experience that it doesn’t take you anywhere. While he or she is already a step ahead focusing on just you and them, you might be taking steps back worrying and feelin insecure about stupid shit. If it’s good then let it be.
